Sweetface, I'm so sorry about your sister, about what she said to you. I can't tell you that she didn't mean what she said, that she'll take it all back and everything will be ok with her. They are completely brainwashed, these JW relatives of ours just barely resemble the people we once knew and loved. You'll deal with this in the right way for you, I and others have had to force ourselves to grieve for our JW family as though they've died. All I can say is, Give yourself plenty of slack during this emotional ordeal, and remember that you've done nothing wrong, remember the good times and stay busy, make new friends.
My dad just left me a message on the 4th. I won't call him back, I've blocked their email address because they can't say anything decent to me-to them 'I look horrible, I must be on drugs'-it's like he and my mom have died and I'm being haunted by their ghosts. I want to call him back to say that he doesn't have the right to 'check up on me', he gave that right up, and it hurts because we were close.
Thank you for sharing your story. I'm glad you're here.
catfish